Insecurity is an interesting personality trait when it comes to dating.Perhaps you’d imagine that a therapist like myself would say that insecurity is a trait that repels men and women alike – that it will prevent anyone from being attracted to you or wanting to start a relationship with you.
How to break free from your insecurities In a word: therapy!That may sound annoying, unnecessary, or expensive, but think of therapy as the best insurance policy you could buy to ensure your chances of finding a relationship that actually works.Remember, if you don’t have insurance that will cover psychotherapy or you don’t have the money to pay out-of-pocket, there are many low-cost therapy providers who will base your fee on your income.(Note that I could just as easily switch the pronouns because men and women have insecurities to similar degrees.) Why would someone want to be with someone who has significant insecurities?If you are struggling with major emotional insecurities, you have to be careful because the people who are attracted to you are probably attracted to you for the wrong reasons.